<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050</id><updated>2009-11-09T08:48:13.591-08:00</updated><title type='text'>BigSend World http://bigsendworld.com</title><subtitle type='html'>http://bigsendworld.com</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default?orderby=updated'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25&amp;orderby=updated'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>157</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-2129273725912377935</id><published>2008-06-21T21:29:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-06-21T21:36:47.096-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Packed My Bag and Moved out!</title><summary type='text'>I am now at http://bigsendworld.comI am disabling comments here and will probably take down all the posts located here. Don't worry though, everything is already relocated at BigSend World!Unfortunately, I can't (or don't know how) to set up a redirect on blogger. I doubt you can since I'd need to get into the deep HTML stuff. htaccess files.Oh well, This will due!See ya at my new domain!PS. You </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/2129273725912377935/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=2129273725912377935' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/2129273725912377935'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/2129273725912377935'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2008/06/packed-my-bag-and-moved-out.html' title='Packed My Bag and Moved out!'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-2775774770777557646</id><published>2008-06-21T03:35:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-06-21T03:36:51.891-07:00</updated><title type='text'>My Vision for BigSend World</title><summary type='text'>All right! Its finally herehttp://bigsendworld.com!I put like 72 straight hours of work into getting this to run and here is my tale and my vision. (this is also my first blog post written on here).About 3 weeks ago I ran into some problems with blogger. I backed up the theme and decided to change things around, but some mistakes were made and it kind of messed up. So I went ahead and loaded the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/2775774770777557646/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=2775774770777557646' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/2775774770777557646'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/2775774770777557646'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2008/06/my-vision-for-bigsend-world.html' title='My Vision for BigSend World'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-5677663787330252339</id><published>2008-06-15T23:56:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-06-15T23:57:10.792-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Ideas'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Spirituality'/><title type='text'>Thoughts vs. Beliefs — a Huge Key.</title><summary type='text'>Last Friday I hung out with my new friend Ricky (that I met in my Men's Group Circle*)  along with a few others.  Like usual, we talked about Law of Attraction and how to manifest things into our lives. Without Ricky realizing the significance it had on me, he mentioned that affirmations are not about thoughts, but about beliefs.Okay, so that seems obvious. Or, if not obvious it seems like some "</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/5677663787330252339/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=5677663787330252339' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/5677663787330252339'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/5677663787330252339'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2008/06/thoughts-vs-beliefs-huge-key.html' title='Thoughts vs. Beliefs — a Huge Key.'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-5385505461234897908</id><published>2008-06-09T17:27:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-06-09T18:02:27.139-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Goals'/><title type='text'>What I Have Been Up To Lately</title><summary type='text'>I am taking a much needed break before my next Final, so I thought I'd reflect on what has been going on with me lately.Besides the recent blogger mishaps and me getting a new domain bigsendworld.com, a LOT has been going on in my academic life that has taken up so much time, I barely even work out.It all started when I began looking for internships in February. As we all know, the job market is </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/5385505461234897908/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=5385505461234897908' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/5385505461234897908'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/5385505461234897908'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2008/06/what-i-have-been-up-to-lately.html' title='What I Have Been Up To Lately'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-7771754499777074025</id><published>2008-06-08T14:45:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-06-08T14:49:45.093-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Update</title><summary type='text'>All right,So finals will be over in a week, but in the mean time I went ahead and bought www.bigsendworld.com! Turns out just plain old bigsend is already taken and though I am in contact with the owner, its hard to say at this point which way it will go.Either way, I really like BigSend World, it has this colossal feel to it. Special thanks to SDH for the suggestion.Thanks to all the people who </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/7771754499777074025/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=7771754499777074025' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/7771754499777074025'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/7771754499777074025'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2008/06/update.html' title='Update'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-1926441950378434221</id><published>2008-06-01T15:46:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2008-06-02T04:30:58.635-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Blog Took a Trimming</title><summary type='text'>As I was in the process of changing templates, blogger of course deleted every non-standard widget in the process.What really gets to me is I used bloggers backup option to save a safe copy of my template, but that back up did not include any of the widgets. It was just a back up of the general layout.I would have expected more from blogger/google---I mean saving a back-up should IMPLY saving </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/1926441950378434221/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=1926441950378434221' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/1926441950378434221'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/1926441950378434221'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2008/06/blog-took-trimming.html' title='Blog Took a Trimming'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-5678623637057812323</id><published>2008-05-10T02:54:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-05-11T22:40:27.838-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Outside Articles'/><title type='text'>How to Find and Live Your Mission</title><summary type='text'>This article is by Alex over at Inner Game ReframeI found it to be a great articulation of what it means to live our "mission"________________Many people feel overwhelmed when they get a glimpse of what they want to do with their life. The task seems daunting, the road long and hard accompanied by an uncertain destination. They can't see the top from the bottom or the light through the fog.The </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/5678623637057812323/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=5678623637057812323' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/5678623637057812323'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/5678623637057812323'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2008/05/how-to-find-and-live-your-mission.html' title='How to Find and Live Your Mission'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-2728418502473632590</id><published>2008-05-04T18:04:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-05-06T22:51:23.795-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Ideas'/><title type='text'>Outcome Independence, Neediness, and our Mindset</title><summary type='text'>There are many phrases coined for this: Outcome Independence, No Fear of Loss, Wanting without Needing. I am certain everyone mentally knows what it means—"not being emotionally attached to an outcome" or "Just Be Cool" Simple, right? But what does it mean to be outcome independent?For one thing, I want to break down each common phrase separately. Outcome independence literally means that your "</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/2728418502473632590/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=2728418502473632590' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/2728418502473632590'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/2728418502473632590'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2008/05/outcome-independence-neediness-and-our.html' title='Outcome Independence, Neediness, and our Mindset'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-1663612749723115967</id><published>2008-04-15T23:55:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-04-20T02:01:33.082-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Ideas'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Spirituality'/><title type='text'>The Law of Attraction</title><summary type='text'>Almost out of the blue, I met a friend who studies interaction and dating but from an angle of affirmations and inner game. That is, my friend really emphasized using affirmations as a way to manifest what you desire in your life (not for positive thinking, but like “wishing from a genie” almost). Also by coincidence, Dante Valentine (from Rock star Casanova) mentioned he uses it actively for his</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/1663612749723115967/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=1663612749723115967' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/1663612749723115967'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/1663612749723115967'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2008/04/law-of-attraction.html' title='The Law of Attraction'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-5673864439907071963</id><published>2008-03-31T23:19:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2008-04-02T02:30:22.367-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Ideas'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Field Reports'/><title type='text'>A Mediocre Date that Did End with Sex---go figure</title><summary type='text'>I'm really loving this Okcupid site, it feels so natural and fun. Even though I am not quite using Davem /online pick up mentality on it, I did make my profile DaveM-esque (with help from my buddy Ulysses from Social Fundamentals). I highly recommend those programs. Anyway on to the journal...Its funny, over time I have been asking the Universe to bring me a very sexually experienced girl and </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/5673864439907071963/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=5673864439907071963' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/5673864439907071963'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/5673864439907071963'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2008/03/mediocre-date-that-did-end-with-sex-go.html' title='A Mediocre Date that Did End with Sex---go figure'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-859627346234152908</id><published>2008-04-02T02:27:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2008-04-02T02:27:50.842-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Field Reports'/><title type='text'>Another Great Date</title><summary type='text'>So in doing my Okcupid thing, I have talked to a bunch of girls. I wrote out two posts from it, here is a third. I mentioned her, lets call her Js, in my last post and I actually had the date with her tonight. Here is how it went down:I sent Js a message on Okcupid. I actually send out the same kind of message to every girl, but it's semi generic. That is, its not like some love poem or my life </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/859627346234152908/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=859627346234152908' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/859627346234152908'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/859627346234152908'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2008/04/another-great-date.html' title='Another Great Date'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-7749533643052280346</id><published>2008-03-14T18:52:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-03-14T18:54:07.049-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Spirituality'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Outings'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Field Reports'/><title type='text'>Surrendered My Nervousness + Opened my Heart = Best Date Ever</title><summary type='text'>Somehow I got the inspiration to check out Okcupid again, a free myspace-ish dating site. I wouldn't categorize it as a Match or Singles site because there really is no pressure, no money involved, and people go on there to meet normal friends, activity partners. Their matching system finds you good friends as well as potential partners. I used Match about a year ago and it didn't feel right. The</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/7749533643052280346/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=7749533643052280346' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/7749533643052280346'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/7749533643052280346'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2008/03/surrendered-my-nervousness-opened-my.html' title='Surrendered My Nervousness + Opened my Heart = Best Date Ever'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-4169674587420825819</id><published>2008-03-04T02:43:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-03-04T02:43:56.621-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Reviews'/><title type='text'>Review of Authentic Man Program's "Power of Presence"</title><summary type='text'>About two months ago I signed up for Authentic Man Program's (AMP) newsletter as suggested by a friend (I believe SexualChocolate who works for MeHow at least at that time). Though, I am really into Ideagasms but I am always open to new teachers and mentors; I am definitely not closed off. Something drew me to AMP, I am not sure what it was but I usually don't pick up random products anymore. AMP</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/4169674587420825819/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=4169674587420825819' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/4169674587420825819'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/4169674587420825819'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2008/03/review-of-authentic-man-programs-power_04.html' title='Review of Authentic Man Program&apos;s &quot;Power of Presence&quot;'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-2657357389936896705</id><published>2008-02-13T17:59:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-02-13T18:06:58.269-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Outside Articles'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Spirituality'/><title type='text'>Amazing Post by Ariel, a True Truth Seeker</title><summary type='text'>Ariel is a guy I met at a few of the Ideagasms meet up. Ariel is just a student, not a teacher yet I admire him as much as any street-credited teacher. I'd like to share one of his posts because it really reflects almost exactly where I am coming from in my quest to seek truth within myself.Some of it may seem unfamiliar to you, but just keep in mind it is spoken in the language of love, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/2657357389936896705/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=2657357389936896705' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/2657357389936896705'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/2657357389936896705'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2008/02/amazing-post-by-ariel-true-truth-seeker.html' title='Amazing Post by Ariel, a True Truth Seeker'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-4074186305641717695</id><published>2008-02-02T17:24:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-02-02T17:39:56.946-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Reviews'/><title type='text'>Ideagasms Intro Program is Out!</title><summary type='text'>Stephane, my friend and mentor who teaches about relationship maintenance, multi-girl relationships, deep inner game, mediation, spirituality, FINALLY came out with a damn intro program.Honestly, I didn't get into IG at all till I dug fairly deep and found all its amazing aspects. Before I only had the mediation tapes and the newsletters, which I barely read because I'm a lazy ass haha.I actually</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/4074186305641717695/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=4074186305641717695' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/4074186305641717695'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/4074186305641717695'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2008/02/ideagasms-intro-program-is-out.html' title='Ideagasms Intro Program is Out!'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-4022047234245300933</id><published>2008-01-29T00:25:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-01-29T00:32:47.372-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Reviews'/><title type='text'>A New Approach --- Online Mentorship from Pro's</title><summary type='text'>I recently came across this online service that offers daily dating/lifestyle mentorship via phone, text message, online, and email. It is run by pro's who have this part of their life handled, decided take on a few students at a time, and focus very keenly.They help you through your goals. Guide you through each interaction with women, including within the relationship and sex. They also offer </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/4022047234245300933/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=4022047234245300933' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/4022047234245300933'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/4022047234245300933'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2008/01/new-approach-online-mentorship-from.html' title='A New Approach --- Online Mentorship from Pro&apos;s'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-6575287167506626075</id><published>2008-01-20T01:05:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-01-20T01:12:22.745-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Spirituality'/><title type='text'>Ideagasms --- Preview of Their New Product "Intro to IG"</title><summary type='text'>Stephane and Ideagasms are coming out with a product meant to introduce their concepts "Intro to IG Consciousness." Before, when I asked Stephane what a good intro to ideagasms ought to be, he said just the Girlfriend Training Program. Though the GTP does include all the basic concepts, it is focused on relationships with one girl.There is much more to ideagasms and I'd like to share that with </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/6575287167506626075/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=6575287167506626075' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/6575287167506626075'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/6575287167506626075'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2008/01/ideagasms-preview-of-their-new-product.html' title='Ideagasms --- Preview of Their New Product &quot;Intro to IG&quot;'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-6808395451280504385</id><published>2008-01-01T23:03:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-01-01T23:09:47.977-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Field Reports'/><title type='text'>Got Approached by a Female Student of Mystery</title><summary type='text'>A few nights back I was hanging out with 456 and BlazerPUA (who was my first mentor in PUA a few years back, met him through pair but he moved to New York the next year). Blazer was in town so me and 456 showed him around LA a bit.It is the day after Christmas and not so much is going down. We hit up a 3 bars, the first two were all right, but nothing too great happening. Finally we head over to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/6808395451280504385/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=6808395451280504385' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/6808395451280504385'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/6808395451280504385'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2008/01/got-approached-by-female-student-of.html' title='Got Approached by a Female Student of Mystery'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-6442000675427523438</id><published>2007-12-28T04:38:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-12-28T04:40:10.536-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Reviews'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Commentary'/><title type='text'>Bisexual Girlfriend Training Program: My Review</title><summary type='text'>As I mentioned in July (here) I joined Stephane and the IG crew in their recordings of the Bisexual Girlfriend Training Program (BGTP) where Stephane came down to train Amy Jo and Brandon (who is now an ex-affiliate of Ideagasms---long, long story) in their new circle relationship. First, let me define a few words. Circles are relationships which consist of one man and multiple women in which the</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/6442000675427523438/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=6442000675427523438' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/6442000675427523438'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/6442000675427523438'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2007/12/bisexual-girlfriend-training-program-my.html' title='Bisexual Girlfriend Training Program: My Review'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-2407187958681997357</id><published>2007-12-23T04:52:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2007-12-23T04:52:50.373-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Ideas'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Outings'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Field Reports'/><title type='text'>A Day with BradP and More Honesty</title><summary type='text'>Today was a rather interesting day in my journey. The last few days BradP and I exchanged emails regarding an interview he needs for his new program, which I believe is to be called "Metamorphosis Method" where he takes his students step by step through the learning process. Since I have been around the block, worked with Brad’s material and had some cool success with it all, he asked me to do an</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/2407187958681997357/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=2407187958681997357' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/2407187958681997357'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/2407187958681997357'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2007/12/day-with-bradp-and-more-honesty.html' title='A Day with BradP and More Honesty'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-8908766789337690818</id><published>2007-12-20T13:41:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-12-20T14:13:29.529-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Whateverness'/><title type='text'>Star Trek --- Kahn Demo's his Tight Game</title><summary type='text'>Observe Kahn from Star Trek deal with his woman problems :-pProbably the best demo of Game I've ever seen in media     </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/8908766789337690818/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=8908766789337690818' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/8908766789337690818'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/8908766789337690818'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2007/12/star-trek-kahn-demos-his-tight-game.html' title='Star Trek --- Kahn Demo&apos;s his Tight Game'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-3832465933954510571</id><published>2007-12-20T03:13:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-12-20T03:29:17.841-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Ideas'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Spirituality'/><title type='text'>Some Words on Meditation</title><summary type='text'>Inspired by a recent meditation, just 5 minutes ago, I decided to get the laptop and write. Daily I have been meditating and seeking to feel deep within my life force. That is what meditation means (to me), feeling my life force. Feeling my energy. Feeling my awe. Feeling my inspiration. Feeling my heart opening. Feeling my gut/solar plexus warming and simmering. Feeling my brain be spaced out---</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/3832465933954510571/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=3832465933954510571' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/3832465933954510571'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/3832465933954510571'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2007/12/some-words-on-meditation.html' title='Some Words on Meditation'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-3431860247934294740</id><published>2007-12-17T21:18:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-12-18T10:56:34.087-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Outings'/><title type='text'>The Last Day with Stephane and his Circle</title><summary type='text'>The events here are actually from about 2 weeks ago. It was Monday night and I had just gotten out of Krav Maga. In fact this is right after the events of my last blog post here. The last thing I wrote was:So back to the girl, she started to play aloof after Krav ended. I wentover to talk to her and she acted like she was holding something in andthen walked over to some other guys. Trying to make</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/3431860247934294740/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=3431860247934294740' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/3431860247934294740'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/3431860247934294740'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2007/12/last-day-with-stephane-and-his-circle.html' title='The Last Day with Stephane and his Circle'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-3697102981492559322</id><published>2007-12-16T20:20:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-12-18T10:25:12.693-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Whateverness'/><title type='text'>A Frequently Asked Question about Ideagasms:</title><summary type='text'>I have been getting quite a few emails lately asking which program to start off with from Ideagasms, seeing as how they have a sale now I have been getting a lot lately. I emailed Steph asking his opinion on where IG newbies could start and he gave me the following reply:"Newbies should definitely get the GTP because it has a bit of  everything in it. If you don't have a girl yet, getting your </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/3697102981492559322/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=3697102981492559322' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/3697102981492559322'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/3697102981492559322'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2007/12/frequently-asked-question-about.html' title='A Frequently Asked Question about Ideagasms:'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234050.post-4196928078250649639</id><published>2007-12-12T01:51:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-12-15T14:19:19.531-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Whateverness'/><title type='text'>Huge Christmas Sale Till December 31st at Ideagasms!</title><summary type='text'>Those of you who read my stuff, I have become a huge fan of Ideagasms. They teach how to deal with girls in a very heart, loving way---but at the same time not taking shit or giving in to pussy power. On top of that, they offer tons of inner game help. I believe it was Stephane who said "All game is inner game" now everyone sort of says it.Though I don't consider myself an advertisement driven </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/feeds/4196928078250649639/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14234050&amp;postID=4196928078250649639' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/4196928078250649639'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14234050/posts/default/4196928078250649639'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bigsend.blogspot.com/2007/12/huge-christmas-sale-till-december-31st.html' title='Huge Christmas Sale Till December 31st at Ideagasms!'/><author><name>BigSend</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01611194014632913282'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry></feed>