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I pretty much have my date's down very solid, up until the kiss. I will make a post soon on my solid Day2 plan, but for now I have a field report for you. This is from my lair, the beginning of the thread was about Parking and validating.

Ulysses wrote:

Around 5-6 bucks including tip. Don't take any chances at any "empty lots" in the area. Tow trucks actually stake these out-no joke.

Wow, validated it was just $5 including tip, much better than the $15 shit down the road!

Also, the day1 when excellent except for the end. The entire beginning I played it the way I know how to game, but this time I made sure to add much more qualification than usual. Whenever she said something that I liked, I complimented her. However, one time she said she can't cook anything that takes more than 15 minutes. Next thing she said was she loves to read great books (like Fountain Head/Atlas Shrugged---whether or not you believe in Ayn Rand, those books are fucking long and intense). So I said "You know, I really like how you are into reading those great books---frankly most people CAN'T read! BUT, don't get the wrong idea sister, you still can't cook!"
And she said to me "Haha, great I lost points for cooking but at least I gained some for reading. I'll read while you cook how about that?"

I ran the cube on her and she became obsessed with her answers as I was able to give her a reading on everything but her wooden ladder and her brown horse. I said I forgot what those colors mean (does anyone on here know what those colors mean)? I did score 8/10 in accuracy, what a great game, I have some things to tell everyone in the Lair about the cube, about how to get a girl to actually HELP you give the right answers. Something I noticed is that if you are 80% correct, she will add the additional 20% to make you fully. I said "Your cube is bright, but you can't see through it meaning you show people you are bright but dont' share your pain" and she said "yeah yeah yeah! I just feel its not in my place to burden others blah blah" So burdening others is a great thing to mirror back to her and say again!

During the date she qualified herself to me a lot. I mentioned on the phone that I heard horror stories that girls weren't whom they appeared to be, ie super fat when their pictures were skinny and tall. She said to me during the date "I look like my pictures.... right?" and I said "Yeah, if you didn't I wouldn't be here by now!" I could tell she was a bit insecure about certain things, she wasn't in the best of shape, but I like her.

We went to a book store right next to Birds Bar and really checked out a lot of books and talked about them. Later I separated from her for like 5 minutes, hoping she'd come back to me. She didn't, and I did start to get restless and think this was a bit childish, so I found an interesting picture in a random book, walked back to her to show it, and when I walked back something weird happened---she started looking at me with very sexual eyes, she started tossing her hair back, like she wanted me to kiss her right there in the middle of the book store. That threw me off, kissing in public for the first time, wow what a stretch. Anyway, I found myself tripping over my words for a second showing her the picture and I realized how irrelevant all this was and that I NEED to just kiss her..

Well the moment ended, we went back to the Birds bar, had a beer but there was no place to sit (that place is too fucking cramped). After I walked her back to her car, but I really messed up the kiss bad. I just looked in her eyes for too long before the kiss (expecting her to lean forward and give a "go" signal) instead she said "No I don't kiss on the first date, I'm not like that, yadda yadda yadda" Date ended on a slightly chasing note on my part, I ended up kissing my finger and touching her cheek, saying "bye" and that we need to do this again but in Westwood.

Afterwards, I called up Ulysses and he invited me to a bar in LA, but I wasn't feeling it. I opened a set with Jealous Girlfriend and I knew I was talking super fast (and I also didn't realize but they were both with their boy friends and I opened the girls stupidly) and the girl blew me out hardcore with "Get a life" Haha, I haven't opened a set in over a month, thanks for the correction biatchez! Even though it kind of ruined my night for 20 minutes.

All in all, I learned I need to fucking go for the kiss at the emotional moment and I need to make sure I am more isolated with the girl. I feel a part of me doesn't want to test kissing in public so I need to learn that aspect of PUA more.**

Also, with the date I texted:
11:19pm
ME: "Hey hope you made it home safe, I had a great evening and Ill talk to you soon"
12:40am
HER "Thanks i had blast... sorry it took me a while"

I think she meant a while to respond? Either way, minus the awkward ending, I feel I can get a second date out of her and if things go smoothly, take her to bed.



**UPDATE: I just talked to my good friend Ulysses on the phone and he suggested this amazing kiss tactic. Next time I am in a book store or whatever and I sense those MAJOR sexual IOIs, I will do this "Hold on. Hold... on.. I think I see something in your eyes <touch chin> close them for a sec, don't worry. <FAST LIP KISS>" Okay all gone :-) check out this book, etc etc..

Posted by BigSend on Saturday, January 06, 2007 at 1/06/2007 01:35:00 PM | Permalink