FR: Sunday Night Sarges
This is a quick one, just want to journal it anyway. I went out tonight to meet up with Ulysses and Chongo, along with 456 at a local bar on the west side. Haven’t seen Ulys and Chongo in a while so it was nice to meet them, show off some of my new tricks—i.e., expressiveness, posture, walk, etc. But most importantly catch up on old times. Labels: Field Reports
456 met up with us after I showed up and I blew open some sets with him around. In this bar at the time, it was a bit more mellow and nothing hooked strong. I notice that while I am talking, the girls will listen, but when I stop the hook isn’t there for them to want me to stay. This is something I need to work on, probably appearing more dominant or sexy or more congruent.
Ulysses and Chongo need to leave early so me and 456 bail and head downtown to some trusty bars. Unfortunately, on this Sunday night it is very dry there too. We are doing a new thing where we talk half the time about getting there, and the other half about pulling. In other words, we’d discuss who would drive there, where we’d park, then we’d discuss how we would pull for a quickie. That is, if 456 were to pull, we worked out that I would give him my keys and he could fuck in my car. (Which reminds me, I need to put a beach towel in there! Don’t want fucking juices everywhere haha). But preferably he (or I) would pull into an alley or bathroom.
Now even though we are not like super star PUA’s, I really get a good affirmation-like feeling working this out. It feels like a good tone to start the night off with. Assume the sale kind of mindset.
Anyway, in the bar we are in, we decide to run game on two girls, me getting one 456 the other at the same time. Usually we just go in one at a time, but we decide to just fuck around and see what happens. It actually almost worked, but I fucked it up! Well, my girl wasn’t all that into me and so as I stacked material, she caught on to the fact the material seemed scripted. Obviously I was a bit rusty—being my 1st set in like an hour.
That didn’t work out too well, 456 was in for awhile but it became a two set for him. I couldn’t lock the girl in even with complements. One mistake I know I made was I went into rapport with the introduction, then right after I ran Horse Girl and that was stupid on my part. I was already in rapport, I just needed to fucking keep a decent vibe going so 456 could run his shit.
Well after this we switch over to another bar next door and there are these whacky Russian broads fucking around. I open one of them with Horse Girl and her friend cuts me off and drags the target away to do shots, but the girl also says “you can come too!” so it was weird, it was like a half blow out, half invitation. Before I knew it I was in the middle of their entire group as they were doing a shot and they acted so normal with me just standing there. My target said a few moments later “Oh you asked me about horses” and I just sorta blew the topic off. Learning from my last set, no point in doing Horse Girl if you are already in.
With this set, it doesn’t go very far and then 456 tells me to up my energy. Perhaps my energy went down? These Russian girls weren’t very high energy themselves, but it became clear they respond real well to high-energy guys. 456 went in and introduced himself real high energy and they were all giggly for him, but these Russian girls seemed a bit pre-occupied with something else. Couldn’t quite put my finger on it.
Either way I re-open my target real high energy and say whatever the fuck comes to my head, just very high energy “So how long are you going to be in America” blah blah blah. It actually works, she talks back, interested in what I say, I even start to pop a little boner as I talk to her (which by the way is my main indicator that she is into me. If I pop a boner while talking to a girl, I know it’s on). But a few minutes later I sort of run dry of topics, the Russian girl doesn’t bring up many topics her self so my energy fades down and the girl sort of loses interest.
Hmmm, I need to keep the energy high and sustain it. Ultimately getting the girl to match my high energy and feed off each other is probably the best possible scenario. A scenario like that will probably end up with me fucking the girl and I feel SO close to finding that part of me which can stay high energy, stay fun, stay smooth, stay interesting, and stay sexy all at once. Once I hone that shit, I will be a fucking rock star.
Until then, we need to find a solid venue for each night of the week! Damn, I feel like I should have been doing this since when I started in the community 3 years ago! Things moved so slow back then, now things are moving at a more rapid pace, its really crazy!
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