FR: A Great Night of Training
I hit up a local bar in my area and it was POPPIN, no excuse for me not to approach. Starts off a little slow looking for a parking spot, and I find one after a few minutes. I hop, skip and jump into a 30 person line, it moves fast but I get talking to the dude next to me on the way in. He's a quiet spoken West African looking to become an actor. Labels: Field Reports, Ideas
So flexing these social muscles are going all right. I eventually get in the bar and WOW it is packed with tons of hotties. My mouth waters as I step further.
Okay to be concise, I opened a set with Horse Girl and the girls seemed confused. Then the damn guy who brings dirty dishes around squeezed by me right then and I lost them! I probably could have continued, but ah well. Warm up.
Next set is up stairs, I open a girl while shes with her friends, a guy and some other girl. I go with Horse Girl and I am really close to her and looking her in the eye. She totally goes for it!! She is like "I'm not the weird horse girl" Then she starts to role play. At first her friends seemed a bit weired, probably because it was so out of the blue and I was ignoring them. They leave us alone and I do the opener, I am touching my girls arm, laughing and smiling looking into her eye. The thing is, my mind went blank!! After the opener, I was just smiling, looking and sort of waiting for something to come up. (I try not to run away when I go blank, I just stay in there and feel out the moment, a bit anxiously but that is the idea). Anyway, the girl blurts out "All these years of getting made fun of, oh wow! Thank you for apologizing" I was a bit slow to go on in conversation, but I talk about my experiences flying in an airplane, that was cool. Come to think of it, I probably should keep role playing with Horse Girl and mess around maybe. Then qualify and go into rapport.
Anyway, what happens is the friends start to look at me and then pull her away. I ignored them too much, my energy sorta tapered off when my mind went blank, I don't blame them. I bet if we were engaged and laughing more, the friends would back off. It was pretty cool, but when my mind goes blank, I need to stack. Really, mind goes blank = stack!
After this, I meet back up with the cool African fella and he is there alone also meeting women! That is cool, but he has a lot of approach anxiety. I tell him "Dude, I get blown out ALL the time, its cool"
So we go back to the upstairs area and I open a set in front of him. Went EXACTLY the same as the last set!! Opened great, got attraction, built some rapport but I went blank. Need to stack.
After those two, my new friend seemed impressed. That is cool, but I told him I really do get blown out like 60%+. I then opened up these two girls by a pool table. I ask them "Do you like horses" and they just look at me like I'm some kind of freak. Then the friend just shakes her head like "no... no.. son, this isn't how you pick up" or something. Oh well, Blow me or blow me out!
After this, I see another girl all alone in the corner, shes real cute but seems a bit depressed. I go up to her and just run horse girl right after my last blow out. This girl can't hear me or something and she grabs my arm very hard. I then say very loudly (as she couldn't hear at all somehow) "DO YOU LIKE HORSES!?!?!" and she seemed a bit taken aback. She was looking down and seeming all depressed. I felt bad, I can feel people's hearts pretty well and her heart was broken... I wished her well but I left.
So my new friend was in a conversation with some other guy and I didn't want to interrupt him. Good luck to you my new friend! I left the bar as I have work early. Fuck I gotta be up early hehe.
What I learned:
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