FR: Another Set Who Knows my Opener
All right guys, going to flat out tell you I opened another set which CALLED ME out and knew my opener! Labels: Field Reports
Its becoming almost a new contingency we have to learn. That is, when you open a set, a PUA should know what to do during a positive, negative and confused response. Well, now there is the "OMG I heard that line" response! However, the repeater-response can be either negative, positive also, however expect to be tested.
It wasn't that bad though!! It really wasn't! I stood my ground and genuinely laughed. Here is how it went
ME: "Hey... do you like Horses?"
HER: "What...."
OBS: "OMG!!! I heard that!"
At this point I was like, shite! But then it was pretty exciting, they were laughing and I put my arm on both their shoulders, stood in close (as I try to have close proximity to sets, not stand far away) and said "No you haven't heard it! Here check this out" and I went on with the opener, but they were laughing and giggling so I really messed up the opener. Thinking back, I should have just switched topics right away as I was already in a tentative rapport with them---will field test next time maybe.
So, not knowing what to do, I just went on. Eventually the obstacle girl asked me where I read the line. I stuck to my guns and was like "Shhhhh I'm telling a story" but it was obvious I had to acknowledge the pick up line. Finally I told them "Yeah, I read it somewhere. But it is a great pick up line! See, it screens girls out. If you guys weren't funny, comfortable with yourselves, or into me, you wouldn't like it and blow me out!" I actually said this. Not sure if it was good or not, in the moment it seemed like it went over well, but thinking back it could have been me qualifying..?
Now they were all looking in my eyes, and laughing but still testing me HARD! Shit do I get tested hard these days haha! ---I feel like I am getting tested because they like me and I give off a "fuck around" vibe which is good but, I gotta pass these tests! Recall one of my last field reports where the girl called me out on being a PUA fromVH 1 and when I really left the set, the target girl got perplexed and a bit sad--- Back to today, I then skip into the 'best friends test. '
"Are you two sisters...?"
"No.."
"Okay but you're best friends, aren't you"
"Yea we are!"
"Okay do you want to take the best friends test?" (I shouldn't ask, I know. I know.. haha but it worked!)
So I ran the test and they were laughing and it was going well. However, at this point I ran out of material plus the girls were at the bar and were ordering drinks, so I was back to doing nothing. While their backs were half turned away from me, at the bar, I told them a random routine, asking if I looked like "Tom Hanks" but that is no attraction routine, its more of a time killer. The vibe kinda died at this point and they were talking to each other. They then told me to come back in 15 minutes because they needed to talk to each other and catch up on something.
Meh, I didn't come back. It was cool. I really just went out to keep my social muscle in flex. It is getting very fun going out, facing approach anxiety and stepping on it! Plus, my interactions are honestly getting funner and funner. I love this Horse Girl shit, even though I got called out on it, it really does an amazing job of weeding out girls.
From my field experience, if you are really bad at pick up, girls tend to not give you the time of day from the get-go, or at least they don't give you anyIOIs . The fact is, I keep my body language in check (though I imagine it could be better) voice tone in check, I am having a fun time, laughing and even though I get called out and the girls know I really am running a pick up line on them, they still gave me attraction indicators.
So, you guys may get called out in the field. Don't be scared! Don't let it get to you! Roll with the punches, for every punch. Just make sure you always have something better to say. These girls were giving me great eye contact, attraction was there from both of them, but I lost it due to getting in my own head. I am like 110% sure if I could stop getting in my head, always be in the moment and have fun I wouldn't need thiscommunity, I'd be in 3somes every night. Its our ego that gets in our way.
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