FR: Number Close Cut Short
Man, you know you're way below AFC when you call the cops in a college town for a party on a Saturday Night only at midnight :(
It was a normal house party, very well done with a white trash theme. But me and my friends are careless and dress nice, hehe. Man, some girls came with pillows in their shirt and sandals, it was hilarious!
Anyway, not too long ago I was talking to some PUA guys about how I don't understand what some people say in conversation when they run out of material, I just didn't know what they said. Ulysseses (one of the many guys I talked to about this) told me very simply. Nothing. Not talking about anything at all, just vibing.
OHH I read this. Tyler Durden talks about this, I just forgot. (Check social vibing http://www.bristollair.com/outergame/skills/socialvibing/)
So I am at the party, and I am talking to a group of my friends and new people. Just one girl is there, but I can sense she is into me, she is sending very subtle hints: standing close, giving me eye contact. So I throw hoops around her: asked her questions like "Guess my major" and she does for like 5 minutes lol, and when she was going to fill her drink I asked her to fill mine too hehe.
So yeah, she was falling in my hoops, and after she got my drink, I moved a bit, she moved with me and we broke off and started talking... about NOTHING. I honestly don't remember what we talked about, I think it was about the gym and how her friend would go up to guys and tell them how much she liked them.
Yeah, this girl was into me. She was tall and about a 8. I would have gone for her, but fack. Some fucker called the cops and the party got broken up at 12:00AM
So I didn't really know what to do in this situation (for solid game) I recall Mystery talking about a situation where he didn't have enough time to talk to the girl because the club closed and he thought it was over because he didn't build enough Comfort and Trust to close. Another thing is, if this girl HB-Tall was into me, could be that it was just for a ONS.
Well anyway, I told her "Hey seems like we are splitting up, but we didn't talk enough let me get your number" So we exchange numbers. Then I recall what Lance, from PU101, said.... Always talk to the girl on the phone right after you get her number so she feels used to your voice when you actually do call her.
It worked out, as she apparently forgot my name (ahh IOD for forgetting, but IOI for begging me to tell her again) but I have her guess, so I call her right then and there and say all right guess my name, over the phone. I have her a hint and she got it hehe
Pretty playful, kind of corny. Lance said it would be like that, but you just want to get her used to the phone.
So now, I didn't build enough of a connection to call her or go for her right away because that is kind of desperate, so now I gotta wait for the whole 2 days. I think if I built more of a connection, I could do what Tyler says and call her that night and meet up, but I don't feel like this situation warranted it. If I had talked to her and established more kino (damn, I only touched her once, I gotta practice more), then maybe it would have been a situation to run more solid game. So I'll call her tomorrow and see what happens.
Side Note: KEEP my fucking shoulders down! Every since finals and a few stressful situations, my shoulders have kept creeping up (you know, like in a nervous way) and it sorta stuck. The other day my shoulders were up and I kept getting blown out of every set. Last night I kept forcing myself to keep my shoulders down and I think that helped make me look relaxed and got this one girl into me instead of anyone else. Nice
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