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Star Trek --- Kahn Demo's his Tight Game

Observe Kahn from Star Trek deal with his woman problems :-p

Probably the best demo of Game I've ever seen in media


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Posted by BigSend at 12/20/2007 01:41:00 PM | | Comments

A Frequently Asked Question about Ideagasms:

I have been getting quite a few emails lately asking which program to start off with from Ideagasms, seeing as how they have a sale now I have been getting a lot lately. I emailed Steph asking his opinion on where IG newbies could start and he gave me the following reply:

"Newbies should definitely get the GTP because it has a bit of everything in it. If you don't have a girl yet, getting your attitude adjusted up to this level is what will allow you to draw one in. You'll then be prepared to deal with everything she does. And then, the basic GTP talks about the benefits of getting girls squirting, and even has a free Chakra meditation to give you guys a little taste.

So the GTP is by far the best intro to IG that I have. After that, you can get the other stuff which teaches you to specialize in specific areas - inner-game (chakras), sexual mastery (squirt DVD), and then finally, bisexual women and Circles. Either way, whatever you decide to get first, you'll gain access to our FORUMS and be able to discuss anything you want to start learning about." --Stephane
This is the same as what I've been saying, however I actually started off with his Chakra program and it wasn't till a year later I got his GTP. But if I could do it over again, I'd have started with GTP -> Chakra -> Squirt -> BGTP.

One thing to know is you do not need a girl friend before buying GTP. In fact, its better to listen to GTP before getting a new girlfriend since it gives so much great advice and frames to go by.

Click here for their Christmas Sale link.

I need to write up a bit more about myself haha! But for the last two weeks I've had finals and been so busy. Stay tuned for more of my saga

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Posted by BigSend at 12/16/2007 08:20:00 PM | | Comments

Huge Christmas Sale Till December 31st at Ideagasms!

Those of you who read my stuff, I have become a huge fan of Ideagasms. They teach how to deal with girls in a very heart, loving way---but at the same time not taking shit or giving in to pussy power. On top of that, they offer tons of inner game help. I believe it was Stephane who said "All game is inner game" now everyone sort of says it.

Though I don't consider myself an advertisement driven blog---this is my anonymous journal---I shamelessly promote Ideagasms.

I go to their events local to me, I read their boards and newsletters almost daily, and they form an integral reference group for me in my relationship/spirituality quest. Being part of their message boards is almost completely worth the ticket since I can ask all my specific questions there (Stephane answers many of them personally).

He has a program that gives very specific advice on dealing with girlfriends and girls you sarge in general.

He offers DVD programs on squirting orgasms

He sells guided mediation products meant for inner game (Called Chakra Mediation)

Steph also teaches about bisexual girlfriend relationships (aka MLTRs)

I can't begin to say the benefit I've gotten from his products on both a spiritual and logical level.


With that said, he is putting all of his products at half off till December 31st! Its a fucking crazy deal, I mean $47 for his Chakra CD's, that is less than most retailers who sell big specialized CD sets. Same with his other products which are multi-CD.

Looking closer, it seems like
Girlfriend Training Program $97 -> $77
Bisexual Girlfriend Training Program $147 -> $97
Chakra Program $77 -> $47
Squirt DVD $97 -> $47


Anyway click here for it!

Here are some posts of mine relating to Ideagasms:
Pictures of Steph's 3 Hot Girlfriends
Stephane's Circle and my Goals/Purpose
A Powerful Frame by Stephane
Stephane --- How to Touch your Girlfriend
A week with Ideagsms (The BGTP Recordings)

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Posted by BigSend at 12/12/2007 01:51:00 AM | | Comments

A Message from Grungey10, Day Game Master

I was extremely lucky to meet Grungey10 back when he was up and coming and form a friendship with him. This guy is just like everyone of us, but he worked hard, stayed committed, got super fucking good and now he is teaching camps in Direct style game. I took one of those camps and wrote about it here.

He has a very bendable method for picking up hot girls in the day. By bendable, I mean you can fit it to your personal style. For example, you can mix in Juggler Method into it, parts of Mystery's Method, or your own personal method. The general principal is to be very honest, upfront and not try to fit into her world.

Its hard to explain and I've talked to Grungey (aka Oliver) many times about ways to teach this. Personally, I do not think this can be taught in a book. In fact, just reading it and imagining how the pick up should progress just from imagination has given me clouded predictions on how a pick up should take place.

Grungey saw a huge demand for guys who want to learn this and agreed with me, he has to teach this live to a larger audience so he set up a huge seminar in Los Angeles, California and invited guests ranging from: Carlos Xuma, Cameron Teone (I believe they were in "The Game" but under different aliases.) And a bunch of other day time dating experts.

Thing about me, is I love you guys, my readers, and with my connections, no way would I want you to pay full price! Haha, Shit is expensive enough already. My blog is fairly popular so I used that leverage and got you guys a 40% discount. When you go to the seminar, MAKE SURE you order it through this link.

A "Sign up for the newsletter" pop up comes up. If you sign up, great. But make sure you still order through my link to get the 40% off. It's about $347 but goes down to around $197 with my discount. I think the price goes up even more after Nov. 1st. Or at least by 4pm on Oct 31st this deal ends. Also, the 40% off only works for 5 students and there are only 15 seats left. You'll see on the web page.


I hope you guys enjoy this. The seminar is November 10th and 11th at:
Courtyard by Marriott
6161 W Century Boulevard
Los Angeles, California
1-310 649-1400


So if day game is a goal of yours to master, taking this huge seminar with Oliver and all this cohorts will really help with it.

http://www.captivatetoconnect.com/bigsenddiscount.html

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Posted by BigSend at 10/29/2007 03:29:00 PM | | Comments

Broke it off with Claire

Wow, what a crazy end. I took off most of my old, old blog posts from 2005 since my mind and views have changed so much since then, however one of the first girls I talked about was Claire. I met her at Saddle Ranch (the place talked about in “The Game”) of all places. She kind of played me and I fell into all her loops like the newbie I was and eventually we stopped talking.

However about last year, October of 2006 she IM’d me out of the blue and we started talking again. Around January of 2007 we finally hooked up after she broke up with her ex and she was my first fuck buddy (we were more than fuck buddies and I feel that was the problem…) that lasted more than 2 nights haha! Well, I felt fairly attached to her, we vibed real well yet at times she seemed conflicted. It was weird, she seemed so into me sometimes, and other times she seemed more confused than anything. I was treating her right and being masculine, so she really had nothing to complain about—though I think that is what made her lose interest in me. I was a nice guy and my “mean masculine” side wasn’t believable… not sure haha.

In May she went back home after college ended and we communicated just barely, maybe once every week or two. Not as much as I wanted. I desired her more than she did me and unfortunately when I am not around to make sure things are going right, she just lost interest in me I think.

During this time I was still sarging, I even pulled a girl home. Made out with a bunch of chicks. I didn’t really feel for them, I liked Claire! But I guess she didn’t really like me. She came back to school (which is located on the opposite side of the city) and she never made an effort to come over here. Then again, I didn’t make an effort to go over there, I suppose I was waiting for her to ask me out again. Shit, I made A LOT of relationship mistakes with this girl. I learned so much.

I swear, I made mistakes up till the moment I finally told her I got to cut her off. See she finally told me that she isn’t looking for me to be her boyfriend. She knew I wanted that, I never even admitted it to myself but deep down I loved her way more than she loved me, if at all. Even the girls I met over the summer didn’t compare. But then again, I didn’t get to know them on a deep level.

So I can sense already my writing style in this post is pretty gloomy. Whatever. So anyway, I told her to remove me from facebook, myspace, cell phone, AIM, etc. She seemed a bit like “wtf” but didn’t act disappointed. I know deep down she is just another insecure girl and even if she had no interest in me, it probably hurt her to have me just cut her off. She said “we were friends before we hooked up. Now its over. So you just wanted to get into my pants?” and that is not true. I loved her… and now I just want to move on. I don’t want to hear about her new boyfriends or whatever. I don’t want to “hang out” with her because I am too attracted. I want it all or nothing, call me greedy but with her out of sight and out of mind, I know I will find another girl who will love me better than her.

Yes, yes I know Claire was just a fuck buddy… but whatever. I am a lover at heart and I can’t fake that. Some girls I can fuck and it means nothing, some girls I can’t fuck without it meaning a lot. That is just me, or maybe I’m young.

Lessons Learned:
  1. I need to address issues and fix them pronto.
    1. waited it out too much with Claire
    2. was too lenient when she had her Pussy Power moments
      1. would just laugh and say “you’re aloof!” and she would just deny it and that was that
  2. need to accept right away if this girl loves me as much as I love her early on
    1. don’t want to get involved with a girl who doesn’t desire me at least as much as I do her
    2. can get out early, but it feels like shit if I get out late
  3. can’t let a girl think she can be a dead lay and I’ll be cool with it
    1. loved fucking Claire even though she was kind of a dead lay sometimes
    2. would just pound her and she was so cute and her voice was cute too so I was cool with it
    3. in retrospect, like 80% of the time she was lazy in bed, 10% she was cumming and moving around.. and the rest of the time she seemed a bit tired
      1. don’t know, just my sense. Perhaps she really was tired since we’d be doing it so late
  4. NEED to frame the relationship early on as I am the leader and she is the nurturer and it is our separate responsibilities. If she doesn’t hold up her end of the bargain as “Vice President of my Heart” I got to fire her, literally
    1. is taken from Stephane’s GTP and I fucking love that philosophy
    2. http://www.simurl.com/gtp
  5. When I sense she is not putting enough effort into the relationship and I tried everything short of desperation, I need to tell her:
    1. She has to put more effort or I have to break up.
    2. And for me, break ups are complete cut off. No online or cellular or personal communication.
      1. Depending how far into the relationship we are in, I’ll have tried MANY things before we get to this point
      2. With Claire, I honestly should have broken up a few months ago

So that is that. Lots of mistakes were made and it is too late to un-break them short of staging a life rescue for her haha. It is cool, I am very grateful for the time I had with her, these lessons. I learned more about what I want out of a relationship and what I don’t want; I also learned how to handle situations and never let problems wait. Address problems right away, no waiting—I need to make that a rule from the beginning “Problems must be dealt with right away”

What I look for in a woman now:

  • Very cute (which includes):
    • Cuddley
    • un laugh
    • Fun to play with and mess around with
  • Loves to give blowjobs
    • That is a given, but Claire didn’t like giving head
    • New girl must love to take it all in (or as much as possible hehe) and not wait for me to ask
  • Listens and Respects me
    • I feel my level of respect for myself and my command comes into play, but assuming that is down, I don’t want her to be too much of a rebel
  • Makes noticeable effort to understand me and help me
    • Claire did this, it was cool. I realized how much I like it now
  • Isn’t lazy in the morning, or isn’t lazy in general
    • Claire was lazy a lot, it was kind of cute but also a bit annoying.
    • I don’t think Claire would ever clean anything or take care of stuff
  • Cares about her body, stays in shape and is excited to do things
    • Claire has a weird medical condition, so she was always in somewhat shape (heart issues, she could not be over a certain weight) but I am like 99% sure if she didn’t have that issue, she’d let loose and be obese.
      • She loved to eat and was probably too lazy to exercise much.
  • I need to demand what I want done and not take “no” for an answer
    • Many times I would do things even though I told her “no” and she would just stick to her guns
      • I realized yes, she had the pussy power over me
      • Never again.
      • If the girl refuses to do what I say and I comply because I want to fuck her that night, it’s a bad reason.
  • I can almost smell her attraction giving way when I would do what she said out of her pussy power
    • So instead, is she refuses what I say, then I drop it. I leave and if she comes back to me, I know it’s on.
      • I need to be Okay with losing her. I need to be okay with this
      • I need to trust the universe to supply my abundance of pussy and blow jobs
        • Not depend on some girl for it
  • Well, looks wise
    • In shape
    • Nice round ass that is squeezable
    • Bigger the tits the better
    • Cute face, sweet eyes and dick sucking lips
    • Tight pussy
  • She LOVES sex
  • She is bisexual or bi-curious
  • She is not a womanist
    • I.e., she isn’t obsessed with women being the same as men everywhere, she is cool with being the feminine while I am the masculine


I know a lot of these things represent traits I need to grow within myself. It is a long journey but I know it is going to get better and better and better all the fucking time!

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Posted by BigSend at 10/10/2007 05:04:00 AM | | Comments

The community cured my involuntary celibacy



















Bottle of wine : $10
5 used condoms : $5
Cranberry juice $0 (from my mom)
Plastic trash bag $I forget
Time magazine $fuck time magazine
Sex $26 dinner

Life is good
Priceless


I paid it all with a visa and get Amazon rewards points..

I'm really liking Claire, such a sweet cuddly girl, but she is going home over the summer and I probably won't see her too much. Damn, that means I need to get back out there. My plan is still to do the BradP social anxiety stuff, but I'll probably get laid during that, I mean come on. Its Bigsend here!

Also, after walking around campus really shagged and messy, I got into some fun interactions with girls. They were promoting some alumni thing and I just started messing around and joking with them and I really felt no anxiety. I think they sensed this and they were really fun and happy around me. There was a bouncy ball on the table and for some reason I tossed it at one of the girls' heads, just for shits and giggles. Something felt very right about just being playful and not taking anything seriously.

I need to act like that all the time, man life will be outstanding!

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Posted by BigSend at 5/16/2007 04:32:00 PM |

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